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Frequently asked questions

What type of ceremonies do you perform?

I typically perform smaller intimate ceremonies that draw upon reflection of your relationship, celebrate your passage into new beginnings, and use aspects of the land (i.e. lei, paʻakai, niu) to help ground you in the moment.

Can we write our own vows?

Absolutely, in fact I sincerely encourage it. I believe in the power of personal vows and encourage you to find your collective voice that speaks to your shared future. Because of this importance of vows, I provide a vow coaching service with myself and/or wife who is a licensed marriage and family therapist. 

What is the cost/price of wedding officatioin?

The average price per wedding is typically around $700. We can switch in and out components of the officiation based on your vision and budget. At the bottom of this page are a list of common services I provide.

What is your cancellation or refund policy?

A 50% non-refundable payment is needed at time of booking in order to secure the date. The other 50% is due by the day of the ceremony.

How long is the ceremony?

30 minutes will typically give enough time for pre-ceremony, introductions, vows, and closing. 

How far in advance should we book you?

A few months in advance is great to give me enough time to get to know you and prepare for your specific needs but am happy to lead a spur of the moment ceremony as long as my availability is open. Feel free to reach out at any point in your planning!

What services do you provide besides standard wedding officiation?

All the services should be laid out in the section below! Specifics to meet your needs would best be elaborated over the phone during a consultation with me.

Services

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Day of: Hā, Lei, Oli

Beyond the ceremony I incorporate a few elements that help center ourselves in gratitude, togetherness, and reflection. 1) breath (Hā) helps ourselves center, relax, and reflect in what can seem like a vast and immeasurable step you are taking, 2) a lei is a gift that symbolizes unity and gratitude for your love, 3) chant (oli) can bless a ceremony and provide a clear path to the future. 

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Vow coaching

 Crafting thoughtful vows is often seen as the most important part of a wedding because it transcends the ceremony itself, offering a lasting, heartfelt declaration of love and partnership that shapes the foundation of your future together. We will meet a few times prior to your wedding to go over previous examples and craft and edit vows that best articulate your commitment to each other. Please inquire about example vows I've helped craft.

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Flower harvest & Lei making

Lei are often given during important life events to honor and show appreciation for the recipient. They are a tactile connection to the land where your ceremony will take place and honors the symbolism of your unification. A day or two before the ceremony will allow us to reflect on your relationship in nature and select and arrange leis that celebrate your passage.

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