The world is overwhelmingly vast, yet at the same time, intricately small. I get lost in this paradox—the infinite complexities of existence, the way life can feel both boundless and impossibly intimate. And in my pursuit of understanding it all, I sometimes lose myself.
Steph once told me that life is a continuous search: a search to understand others’ truths and to have our own truths understood. It’s a simple yet profound idea. The way someone else perceives reality can sometimes be frustrating, even bewildering. And so, we go on, trying to find common ground, trying to shape a reality we can both stand in together. But when we do—when we find that shared understanding, when our perspectives align even for a moment—it feels as if a small corner of the universe has clicked into place. It feels like home.
When I take time to intentionally connect with Steph, I find a piece of truth in my reality. She makes the world feel right in ways I never realized I needed. In a world that often pressures us to have all the answers, She reminds me that it’s okay to say, I don’t know, but I’m curious about YOUR truth. She makes life more approachable, less intimidating. And for that, I am endlessly grateful.
When I work with a couple, I want to help them build a future where both of their truths are realized—not just acknowledged, but woven together in a way that honors their individuality while creating something greater than the sum of its parts. A marriage isn’t about erasing differences; it’s about learning to stand in them together, to listen, to grow, and to shape a life where both people feel seen and understood. I don't just want to officiate a ceremony, but to hold space for that deeper connection—to help couples step into their commitment with open hearts, shared understanding, and the courage to keep discovering each other’s truths, again and again.
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